Ways To Identify a Bully Husband

Bullying a wife can vary from the relatively gentle to the downright abusive. Here’s how you'll be able to  determine that.

Human interaction is often very difficult . And when two individuals with totally different agenda share a life, you'll be able to clearly expect some less than perfect behaviours from any of them. though  certain temperament types are naturally more dominant compared to others, it's very important for a healthy relationship to try and maintain a balance between both sides’ physical and emotional.

It can happen that your partner might not even notice that they're truly bullying you. or you could be the bully yourself in the relationship without even knowing it yourself! the very fact is,
it’s very easy to slip into negative behavioural patterns, thus it’s always an honest idea to periodically stop and examine of your conduct.


So how does one determine an relationship bully? Here are some four tell-tale signs:

They penalize you if you don’t suits their desires

This is bullying in its simplest type. Do what I say, or else… not like schoolyard bullies your partner may not beat you up if you don’t offer them your lunch money, but if they don’t get what they want, they're going to find a way to punish you. This penalization can take several forms. Do any of these sound familiar?

• Withholding sex
• Threats of quitting or breaking up
• silent treatment and sulking
• Fits and tantrums

If you discover yourself doing what your partner wants because you're afraid of what the fallout are going to be if you don’t, then you're being bullied.

They belittle and disrespect you – both privately and publicly

Does your partner make derogatory remarks concerning your looks, your job, or your intelligence? Do they create fun of you in front of others and tease you regarding things that you are sensitive about? Bullies have an incredible giftto find weak spots and pick on them. this is often doubly harmful in a relationship, where you have confided in your partner about your insecurities and they then use them against you.

They make unreasonable demands

Does your partner expect you to spend all of your time together? Are you expected to be home each single night by a definite time? Do they tell you what you should and shouldn't wear? Do they expect you to be proud of the frequency, duration and kind of love-making they prefer? 

Do they try and control your behaviour and penalise you (with the strategies in point 1) once you don’t comply?

These control freaks create all the rules  and are ne'er in the wrong. They use emotional manipulation and make youfeel guilty if you do not meet their ever-escalating demands.

The worst thing? they'll never be happy, regardless of how much you offer them, or how much you sacrifice.

They isolate you from friends and family

This is a strategy that all abusers use. If your partner prohibits or discourages you from seeing friends and family, or controlling who you consult with or what you’re allowed to say, you must hear alarm bells ringing. they always dothis deliberately to sever you from support. this manner they can manipulate you without fear of discovery or input from others who might shed some light on the situation.

These bullies  usually tell you they're the only ones who care about you and so other dear ones don’t know what’s best for you or have their own agendas. Be  very careful once you see this happens. we've support networks for a reason, and don’t let somebody cut you off from yours.